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September 26, 2016 by Peter Michaelson

MOST OF OUR SUFFERING IS avoidable. Our emotional and behavioral problems can be resolved. We just have to understand how our psyche works. This website is dedicated to teaching vital psychological knowledge. Do you need help to curb drinking or to get off drugs? Are you facing a divorce or a career failure? Are you anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed by life's challenges? Perhaps you're simply unable to get your mind or intelligence into high gear. I can help. I'm Peter Michaelson, an author and psychotherapist in Ann Arbor, Michigan. I teach people how to overcome unconscious programming that produces suffering and self-defeat.

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My book, Why We Suffer--A Western Way to Understand and Let Go of Unhappiness, is the amazing story of what mainstream psychology has failed to teach the world. Read the reviews and buy the e-book for $7.97 at Amazon.com.

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